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When we have periods, we cannot fast in Ramadan, but we have to pay the lost days back by fasting in another month immediately!
2. Medicine:
Medicine is taken in Sahur or Iftar, the meals before and after fasting, however if your illness requires you to take it during the day, it’s okay to not fast, but you still have to pay it back if you heal again.
Point 1 and 2: it’s done like this because your health comes first. Fasting requires you to be in optimal condition, and Allah will not force you outside of your own limitations.
3. What if your Illness is so bad?
If your illness cannot heal and you’re sick all the time, you can pay Fidyah instead of paying the fast back. Fidyah is donating to feed the poor.
4. Music
Depending on different Madhabs or opinions, many people have debated whether or not Music is haram. It is often discussed due to some music having the ability to arouse sexual feelings or hinder worship in general. Ofc you can choose which opinions works best for you, you must know that if you do consider music not haram, don’t let it hinder your prayers, fasting, or Quran reading.
5. Swearing
It doesn’t officially break the fast, BUT it greatly reduces the rewards. Fasting is about self control, some say swearing makes your fasting useless even though it doesn’t break it.
(I personally attack you and your mental state edition)
Hayloft: You might be a Dream SMP stan and y’know? That’s fine. Alternatively, you regularly fall for morally gray characters in media or, more worryingly, morally gray people in real life.
Wrecking Ball: You’re used to being villainized by others and probably have some anger issues to boot. You put up a really strong poker face, even when extremely upset or angry.
Burning Pile: How’s the constant pressure to overachieve going for you? Not great? That’s what I thought. You’re very stressed and tired and are afraid to admit that you might actually deserve a break.
Body: You give off cryptid energy. You probably spent a chunk of your childhood creating an elaborate fantasy world in which you were something other than human.
Oh Ana: You either heavily associate this with some ~trauma~ or it makes you feel powerful in a weird, kind of concerning way. You like a dramatic flourish and a sexy villain. You analyze the lyrics of every single song you like.
Ghosting: Abandonment issues. Yeah <3. Also, you probably have a little bit of a soft vibe going for you and might be the mom/dad/therapist friend of your group. You have a habit of distancing yourself from people before they can hurt you. You should work on that.
Little Pistol: You probably deal with a lot of anxiety. You’re also the type to have a playlist ready for every single occasion. You don’t trust people easily.
Verbatim: You’re a flirt and pretty okay with that, or alternatively you wish you could be confident enough to be flirty. You think of your life as a movie often.
Arms Tonite: You’ve had a lot of experience with heartbreak or toxic/codependent relationships in the past, but you’re trying to be stronger for it. You just wanna be loved, man. It’s rough. I know.
6th April marks the first celebration of IAD which has been organised by various groups around the world.
Happy International Asexuality Day! Today is a day for celebrating all people who identify under the asexual umbrella and spreading awareness about their experiences.
A number of ace organisations worked together to make April 6th 2021 the very first International Asexuality Day.
The themes of today are:
• Advocacy
• Celebration
• Education
• Solidarity
What is asexuality?
• Feeling little to no sexual attraction
Some asexual people also feel no romantic attraction. This is known as aromantic.
However, some asexual people do feel romantic attraction. This is broadly known as alloromantic, but can be more specific such as biromantic (romantically attracted to two or more genders but experience little/no sexual attraction).
Asexuality is a spectrum!
Here’s just a few identities within the asexual umbrella:
Demisexual - someone who does not experience sexual attraction until they have formed a deep emotional connection with someone
Grey-asexual – someone who feels sexual attraction weakly, infrequently, or in specific contexts
Aceflux – someone whose sexual orientation fluctuates but generally stays on the asexual spectrum
Lithosexual – someone who does experience sexual attraction but does not want it reciprocated. Person may be uncomfortable at the thought of someone being sexually attracted to them, or they may lose their sexual feelings if they learn it’s reciprocated.
Fraysexual – when someone only experiences sexual attraction towards those that they are not deeply connected with, and lose that attraction as they get to know the person.
Why is awareness important?
• Combats acephobia
• Challenges normativity
• Helps provide support
• Feelings of connectedness and community ; feel less alone
• Dispel myths and misunderstandings
• Help normalise asexuality and other LGBTQ+ identities
